is it that guys always seem to go for looks, no matter what a girl's
personality might be like, whereas chicks go for a guy with money,
or a nice car or something like that. Women seem to judge men, and
be attracted to them, on the basis of other qualities. Can you shed
any light on why this is so?
this is one of the easiest questions anyone's ever asked the webmistress
ever. The Answer is:
by and large, are better-looking than men. Men, by and large, have
more money than women.
to put it more succinctly:
are ugly. Women are poor.
a complete misunderstanding of reality to think that women will not
go for men on the basis of good looks. They just can't find any.
men, such as movie stars like Johnny Depp or Brad Pitt, excite
such a deep and enduring interest in the female population, that women
are known to mail their panties to them, in a desperate attempt to
remind the good-looking men in question exactly how babies are made
and to indicate an interest in performing the sort of activities that
will lead to the conception of one. This rarely works, but hey - it's
worth a shot.
men get laid. Constantly. All 12 of them currently on the planet
can easily attest to this.
do not judge men on the basis of other qualities because of some deep-rooted
personality difference or an admirable depth of character. They judge
men on the basis of those other qualities because those other qualities
are the only qualities men have.
it is a deep misunderstanding to think that guys will not follow a
chick with money around until she supports them. They will. They do.
They always have. Now that women in some societies are earning quite
a bit of money, men all over the place are giving deep and happy consideration
to thoughts like - well, let's see, she makes more money than I do,
which means really I don't have to work that hard to support us, so
guess what, I won't!
have been times and places when men have been deeply offended by the
idea that a woman would earn more money than they do, driven by a
deep intuitive understanding that money is virtually the only thing
they have to offer to anyone. You too would feel offended if the only
damn thing in the world you were good at got hogged up by someone
else, just like everything else.
the lure of being offended or having one's pride hurt is easily overcome
by the lure of a free ride or the opportunity to buy shit or do things
with someone else's money that you wouldn't be able to do with your
own because you don't have any.
is attractive. Period.
like them, women like them, kids like them, advertisers like them,
old people like them, dogs like them, and maybe even God likes them.
Everybody likes a good-looking human!
get to pay plenty of attention to good looks when selecting a potential
sexual partner because the female sex, in comparison to the male sex,
is brimming over with good-looking eye candy. Women are just prettier
than men, in spite of recent advances in cosmetic surgery that could
potentially even up the score a bit.
don't care what sex you are, if you had the opportunity to choose
from among a relative horde of good-looking people, you'd devote plenty
of pleasurable time to considering your options. It is only natural
that men place a high premium on good looks, for the simple reason
that they can.
couldn't get any simpler. Now, if you want to aid the cause of equality
between the sexes (and I know you do, you think about it constantly,
and want nothing more on earth), the obvious tack to take is to:
is an urgent priority in the area of improving relations between the
sexes. We all have a stake in this. Strides have been made in nations
around the world in improving the economic lot of women. This is an
excellent thing and allows for many opportunities and abundant economic
growth for people and places where previously there weren't any damn
opportunities or as much economic growth. Rich women raise the
average standard of living for all of us. We like them, we like
this, and we want them to lend us money or buy us fabulous gifts and
in the midst of all this female economic improvement, a horrible thing
has happened. Men are still ugly! Women are not as poor, but men
are still ugly! They have been left behind and left out, and consequently
are lacking a crucial weapon to fight back in the war between the
sexes. Parity is necessary and parity is lacking.
affects everyone on a day-to-day basis. Today it's possible to be
a man and be, comparatively speaking, both ugly and poor. This
places an incredible stress on mating women, who frequently find themselves
accidentally married to someone who was not all that hot to begin
with but who has now morphed into a truly appalling lazy tub o'lard.
No wonder married women are among the most miserable people on the
the natural impulse of misery is to share and spread it around. The
woman married to an ugly man feels increasingly compelled to take
it out on him. Guys - listen up! - all your sexual relationships
would improve if you were just better-looking.
say a girl you were sleeping with got all mad at you and was suddenly
seized by a desire to be pissy and unpleasant. If you were good-looking,
right in the middle of her anger, her eyes would stray to your handsome
and appealing face, they'd rake the contours of your buff and sexy
body and her anger would say to itself 'oh hell, I guess running over
the dog is not that terrible. And neither is adultery. I don't
know what I was going to get in a snit about. Come here, you gorgeous
hunk of human attractiveness, let's make babies.' And so on. Her brain
would say that to her because good-looking people produce good-looking
babies and good-looking babies have a real advantage in the world,
particularly if they stay good-looking as they grow up. And the human
sex brain always has an eye for that sort of thing, the advantage
promotes charity, forgiveness, kindliness, happiness, and good chemicals.
It makes the world a better place. Men - you are not doing your
share. You are losing your edge in the increasingly competitive
and stressful modern world. You are falling behind in the race for
supremacy. Halt this trend! Improve your looks.
don't think I am just ranting about something that doesn't affect
you personally. It does. Every day. Not just in the area of your personal
relationships with women who would like you better and treat you better
if you were actually Tom Cruise, but in your career and financial
status as well.
gay men are among the most affluent groups around, not counting children
of the Hilton family. The reason they are comparatively more wealthy
than you is that they are better-looking. They make more money
and frequently they have more fun, so long as they are not getting
beat up by jealous straight guys.
Eye for The Straight Guy is not just a passing fad. Well, actually
it is, but that's beside the point. The point is that advice from
gay guys offers a sliver of opportunity for hapless heterosexuals
to maintain a foothold in the slippery slope of modern life.
that you are all alarmed, and you should be, what can you do personally
to combat the dangerous and increasing Good-Lookingness Gap?
#1: Support Hair Research. The
kind that would allow you to keep your own for the rest of your life.
On your head. Not in your nostrils or ears. Sure there are people
who say that baldness is sexy, but let's face it, most of you bald
people look more like George Costanza than an NBA basketball star.
You simply can't afford to lose your hair because it is the only thing
covering up your ugly head.
guys don't elected president of anything or run Fortune 500 companies
or what have you, nearly as often as guys who are not bald. But is
anybody doing anything about this terrible handicap in the game of
life? Well, yeah, but not enough. Current hair therapy is simply
not good enough.
is a political issue. When AIDS became a crisis in the USA in
the early 80's, gay people got very obnoxious and wore T-shirts, and
disrupted conventions, and generally made themselves real pains in
the ass until funding for AIDS research was secured. You bald and
potentially bald people need to do the same thing. Demand your birthright!
Demand your hair back! Don't think the introduction of Viagra into
the marketplace is going to solve all your problems. Agitate for free
Rogaine! Don't stop until every man everywhere can go to sleep at
night knowing his hair will always be with him.
funding for things like breast cancer research is important and everything
because people die of that shit, you know. And that's a big deal.
But who ever spares a thought for the millions of men who don't die,
who are forced to eke out 70 or 80 years on earth, perpetually imprisoned
in the nightmare of physical unattractiveness? It's an outrage! Stop
being the kind of pussy who takes that sort of stuff lying down. Stand
up! Women trade on their good looks all the time. So would you, if
you had any. Force the government to provide you with them - gratis.
That's the kind of progress and political consciousness-raising this
planet needs. Strike a blow for the fulfillment of human potential.
#2: Work out and like, buy better clothes and stuff. You could
be better looking if you weren't so damn lazy. Ditch the flab, stand
up straight, wear clothes that fit, dye your hair blond, and glance
in the mirror before you subject the world's eyes to your presence.
Eyeliner would help a lot of you but I don't foresee that catching
on in time to do you any good, so keep that one on the back burner
of you, of course, are saying things like - ditch the flab?! If money
is attractive, period, wouldn't it just be easier to get rich? Of
course it would. But not only will ditching the flab help you get
rich faster, by improving your personal appearance you are striking
a blow for your entire sex. You are upping the average and thereby
opening doors for men everywhere. Someone needs to be a leader in
the struggle of the disadvantaged and that someone is you.
you have no idea how clothes can be used to improve your personal
appearance, ask someone who does. Believe me, there are more people
who are aware of improvements you could make in this area than you
ever guessed. Much of the advice these people will give you will come
at absolutely no charge! Opinion donations will flow freely once you
ask for them, and you will be touched by how many truly care.
#3: Consider plastic surgery. Sure it can be pricey, but consider
it an investment in the quality of your life. Liposuction is much
more reasonably priced than you imagine!
Bonus Tip for the Aesthetically Impaired: Inform the cosmetic
surgeon before surgery starts that you would like to look more
like George Clooney and not more like Michael Jackson. Important
#4: Develop charm. Good-looking people are more charming and charming
people appear better-looking. Charm is the ability to pretend that
you really really like the person you are interacting with even when
in reality you couldn't give a shit about them really. Practice pretending
you really really like people. People are suckers for this. Which
doesn't have anything to do with our main point, it's just an observation.
Our main point is that if you pretend that you really really like
people, your face will rearrange itself to support the deception.
It will rearrange its muscles and try to look more pleasant. It will
force you to smile and will pump health-giving nutrients to your skin,
thereby improving your complexion, it will moisten your eyes to give
them that extra sparkle and so on. Once you have practiced pretending
that you like people, go the extra mile and pretend that you are sincerely
interested in having them like you back. This little exercise will
give you an amazing amount of bang for your appearance-improving buck.
People will swear on a stack of Bibles that you are much better-looking
than you really are and this harmless ploy (almost harmless, no ploy
is ever entirely harmless) will make everyone happier. Give it a shot.
#5: Have sex with someone from another race. Not only will this
give you a nice post-orgasm rosy glow, it will improve the future
of mankind as well. Particularly if you 'forget' to use birth control.
For the sad fact is that all the races are appallingly unattractive
when left to breed with themselves, but stick two of them together.....
race children are just flat-out better looking and we need to be mindful
of the legacy we are leaving future generations. Many many more mixed
race people is the kind of inheritance they will forever be grateful
for. Are you Irish? May I suggest a helpful smattering of Chinese
gene-mixing to improve the potential attractiveness of your offspring?
If you are black - consider spawning kids with one of those horrible
white people you see all around. Korean or Japanese? Consider this
- are you truly doing all you can to mix your genes with a rugged
blond Australian? I think not. I think many of you are falling down
in this important area. I strongly suspect that many of you Finns
and a number of you folks from the Netherlands are entirely neglecting
to bed good-looking South American people. Shame on you! Do you
care nothing about the kind of world we will be leaving for our children?
Without your dedicated efforts in this area, millions and millions
of male people will be left to their own ugly devices with nothing
but the unattractive genes of a single race to draw upon. Mating with
someone of an entirely different culture who speaks absolutely no
words of any language you are familiar with is a teeny price to pay
for a better-looking species. As sacrifices go, this one is well worth
#6: I don't have a suggestion #6. I think 5 action-packed suggestions
is more than enough. Of course there are many many more things you
could do to make yourself or men everywhere better-looking. But let's
face it. It's well after midnight and I am very tired so there is
no chance in hell I am going to belabor this point with more suggestions.
You're on your own from here on in.
I answered your question. Now you know why men go for looks, and women
for money. And wasn't it just perfectly obvious all along? Of course
it was. As well as that other thing you always knew - you want them